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December 22, 2025

The Missing Ingredient: Gratitude

By Fareed Ahmad Stephen R. Covey, in his book, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”, compares the concept of Character Ethics with Professional Ethics.  He stresses that in order to succeed in the long term, a person must focus on enhancing his character ethics, rather than merely his professional ethics. Character ethics cover several aspects of a person’s thinking and behavior.  A man with a strong character is likely to succeed in the long term; whilst one who has countless character flaws will eventually flop, although he may flourish in the short term. Today, we see several people who are apparently doing well in their private and professional lives, but they are actually very unhappy and unsatisfied.  We see owners of multi-national firms, seven-star hotels and huge factories, earning millions of dollars, but taking anti-depressants to escape their feeling-low syndrome.  These people lack one key ingredient of a sound character and a strong personality.   That missing ingredient is: Gratitude. On the other hand, we also find people living in slums, yet enjoying life, having a sound sleep, and a cheerful countenance.  We also see middle-class people, who are highly satisfied, and leading a purpose-driven life.  This is because their life has an abundant sprinkling of the valuable ingredient: Gratitude. In life, you`ll find such people that even if they are given mountains of gold, they won`t be happy or thankful.  You’ll find students crying on their result days, despite achieving distinctions.  You’ll see wives forever complaining, no matter what their
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

When I asked for forgiveness..

Bismillah. “Ya Allah! I’ve lost my wallet! Where did it go? It was right here in my room.” I nearly screamed while looking for my wallet in my totally messed-up room.  From morning till evening, I searched, searched and searched but could not find it.  Seeing my frustration, my sister advised me to ask forgiveness, and said that the problems that we face are usually a result of our sins.  I sarcastically said, “Yeah, right!”. Seeing that I was unconvinced, my sister told me to listen to a lecture of Ustadh Raja Zia ul Haq which was based upon these verses: “And (Noah a.s) said, ‘Ask forgiveness of your Lord. Indeed, He is ever a Perpetual Forgiver. He will send [rain from] the sky upon you in [continuing] showers. And give you increase in wealth and children and provide for you gardens and provide for you rivers. What is [the matter] with you that you do not attribute to Allah [due] grandeur.” (Surah Nuh :10-13) Listening to the lecture, I got my concepts cleared that whatever evil comes our way is actually the result of our sins, and that asking for forgiveness is the way out.  We like to blame our tough situations on others, when we ourselves are the ones to be blamed in reality.  As I resolved to seek forgiveness from Allah sincerely, I remembered the Hadith: “Allah is more pleased with the repentance of His slave than anyone of you would be on losing his camel
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

Writing Wasiyah – A Forgotton Sunnah

    By Zaki Imtiaz Bismillah, walhamdulillah was-salaatu was-salaamu ‘ala Rasulillah! I begin with the name of Allah, all praise is due to Him alone, and I send peace and blessings upon the Messenger of Allah, Muhammad (Salallahu alaihi wa sallam) I have seen several families fighting over the issues of Virasat (inheritance) and Wasiyah (will) after the death of important people from among them. Wouldn’t it be great if people would follow the commandments of Allah in such affairs? There would be no fights if the wealth of the deceased was distributed according to the law of inheritance laid out in Islam. If the deceased left a will explaining each aspect in detail, there would be no dispute over family issues. There would be so much ease in fulfilling the missed obligations, promises and other commitments of the deceased by his surviving family. A couple of weeks ago, I came across the following Hadith.  I was already aware of it but it had never struck me so strongly. ” ‏ “‏ مَا حَقُّ امْرِئٍ مُسْلِمٍ يَبِيتُ لَيْلَتَيْنِ وَلَهُ مَا يُوصِي فِيهِ إِلاَّ وَوَصِيَّتُهُ مَكْتُوبَةٌ عِنْدَهُ “It is not right for a Muslim man to spend two nights, having what he would will, without having his will written with him.” [Tirmidhi] I thought to myself, “Do I know when I’m going to leave my loved ones and carry on with my journey towards Allah?” Of course, I didn’t know! No one does. So, I decided to start writing my
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

Ramblings of a Closet Feminist

By Mariam Riaz All of us reach a certain point in our lives when directly, or indirectly, pressure is exerted on us to “settle down”. I have nothing against the institute of marriage, for indeed, it is a sacred Sunnah. However, I do have some scores to settle with our twisted society regarding what this institution has become. Some may think that I’m confused between being a closet feminist and a “fundo” (pet word for fundamentalists or extremists, if you please). However, when you start your post wondering what people would think, you know something is wrong, somewhere! This goes on to show exactly what our society has reduced women to being. When your purpose in life is reduced to just one thing – marriage – that’s all your life starts revolving around. It doesn’t matter how many books you have read, or how much you have learned from life in general, at some point the main concern of our lives as Pakistani women seems to be acceptance. How many times have you come across statements like, “If you become too career-oriented, no one will marry you”, “Dress modestly; men don’t like women who are too bold in their dressing”, “Don’t be so dowdy; educated men prefer smartly dressed women.” As I write this, the marquee next door reverberates with Bollywood beats accompanied by sounds of cheers – obvious signs of a wedding. It makes one wonder whether it is really worthwhile to spend one’s life savings on a
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

The Barakahs of Islamic Injunctions

By Mohammad Ali I remember a married couple who attended my wedding. I remember hearing the wife complaining to her husband that he did not compliment her despite the fact that she had spent so much time adorning herself. This is not just the story of one couple, but it is a occurence and cause for friction between couples. Wives complain that their husbands get bored of them or don’t like them anymore. I don’t know how this happens. I can’t give an exact reason but there is one thing that I can tell. The benefits of following Islamic injunctions are immense, and only a person who acts on them can see the fruits. Imagine a man, controlling his desire, lowering his gaze, abstaining from intermingling and sitting with non-mehrams, abstaining from chatting, gossiping and joking with non-mehrams. Imagine when such a person gets married. When this man, who has waited patiently for a fulfilling gaze on this one woman, looks at his wife and when he sits with her, and talks to her; who can explain the incredible emotions that this person is feeling? I find it hard to believe that such strong and pure emotions can be felt by a man who has always been in company of non-mehram females, holding their hands, hugging them, talking to them, joking, and playing around with them. Same goes for the females too. Allah prohibited intermingling of sexes and commanded women to do hijab and there is great great hikmah
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

Solar Eclipse on 3rd November- Do’s and Dont’s

A solar eclipse can be seen on the Earth when the Moon passes between the Sun and Earth, and the Moon fully or partially blocks the Sun. It is expected that tomorrow (i.e. 3rd November), “A total solar eclipse will be visible from parts of Africa…. The eclipse will be partial for people in some parts of Asia, Europe, North America and South America. The partial eclipse will begin over the Indian Ocean and end over eastern United States. This is a hybrid eclipse because it is both a total and an annular eclipse.” (Source: http://www.timeanddate.com/eclipse/solar/2013-november-3) According to astrology experts, the eclipse is expected to begin at 3:05 pm in Pakistan; its total phase will be at 4:06 pm here; and the eclipse would start ending at 5:49 pm Insha Allah. At this point, it feels appropriate to know what exactly Islam says about the solar eclipse. Does it really occur due to the death of anyone? Does the myth of wearing red undies with a safety pin or carrying something metallic to ward off the eclipse-harm hold any truth? Or is it simply one of the signs of Allah? There are numerous ayaat in the Quran regarding the sun and moon. Allah says: “And from among His Signs are the night and the day, and the sun and the moon. Prostrate yourselves not to the sun nor to the moon, but prostrate yourselves to Allah Who created them, if you (really) worship Him” (Fussilat 41:37) A solar eclipse
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

Broken hearts and picture frames

  I feel like Professor Snape toiling with an essay on “Being Unbiased”. Not that I’m at a loss for what to write but because- it is complicated. To break love into categories, to stop loving someone when you’re already in it, fall out of love… draft 11 discarded, crumpled and all thoughts brushed aside. It is simple really. It would be a fallacy to snort at love as a fool’s emotion. I do truly believe that at some point in your life, you will map out a new constellation in the sky. You will meet a person who will make you feel whole again. Who will make your world go bright and starry. The one person you would want to sit with on the patio all winter and drink coffee. When you can talk about anything and everything. Or maybe not talk at all, just being with them gets you through the day. Your outlet for crazy fears, wildest obsessions and nonsensical string of babble. Your impossible plans and initiatives, and this person will dream your dreams. When you actually get to sprinkle water at them to wake them for prayers. And night prayers will be ever more enchanting. You will have a skip in your step and a smile burning inside. Your fiercest loyalties will have a direction, your strongest of feelings, a rhyme and reason. You will feel an odd stillness when they are around. There is no guilt, no competition or even jealousy. Simple moments
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

“CHARGE!”, says the Devil, and we do!

“It started out as a feeling, Which then grew into a hope… Which then turned into a quiet thought, Which then turned into a quiet word…” – Regina Spektor With the advent of the free media and unchecked foreign movies flowing in, our senses are now quite desensitized to the free-mixing of both genders. When once, some ten years ago, talking to a guy (non-mehram) was considered somewhat taboo and an oddity, the same is now encouraged and has become the norm. We are educated now. We have broader minds. We are free. It never had quite an outlined beginning. Eye contacts and a few conversations sufficed to establish friendly ground, not unlike the one that unguarded youth are wont to make. There was a friend request on a social network soon after, and thus began what seemed a harmless conversation. The messages had started going to and fro, until that fateful day when he said it. He put it out loud and screaming between them, without a second thought. Then again, better sooner than later. For only God knows, how long it would have dragged. He said – that he harboured a ‘likeness’ for her. It seems of little consequence, does it not? It was just a message conveying the feeling- a mere statement. Not something worth worrying over. Even laughable maybe? Brush it away, why don’t you? Yet, it came out as a battle cry. Shattering all illusions and blowing apart the curtains of naiveté. Allah says
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

The Inseparable Two

By Umm ‘Aisha Bismillah. Our beloved Prophet (sallalahu alaihi wasallam) said: “Indeed Haya (modesty) and Iman (faith) are Companions. When one of them is lifted, the other leaves as well. (Baihaqi) Haya and Iman- these two remain joined together like Siamese twins! Today we see shameless and immodest acts being committed openly around us by ‘Muslims’ in ‘Islamic’ countries.  Is it a sign that the level of our Iman has decreased so much that Haya is vanishing away? The important question is: “What does Iman or faith in Allah give us? And how does shamelessness take it away?” Faith in Allah is something that makes us accountable to One Supreme Being; it makes us conscious of being ‘watched’, it strengthens our belief in the Day that is approaching, it makes us fearful of standing in front of the Rabb of the worlds, it gives us a goal- a goal that doesn’t just revolve around ‘wake-up, eat, drink, have fun, die- THE END’, it makes us work for something Supreme. To sum it up: It makes us slaves of The King who made us his inheritors of this earth.  It makes us yearn and strive to be rewarded with the most amazing award imaginable: to see Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala, to be in His Company, and to be His guests in Jannah. Can someone with such a high aim afford to just play around all his life carelessly?  I believe not. And this is where Haya comes in.  When you
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

The Fantasy World

By Fareed Ahmed Drugs and Sex- these are the two thing playing havoc with the lives of the youth these day, all over the world.  Like most of us, my school and college life has been spent in liberal co-educational institutions.  I have witnessed numerous boys and girls deviating from decency, ethics and morality- all because of these two things.  Both these things are interlinked, but attraction towards the opposite gender currently appears to be the more threatening of the two. In elite schools and colleges, friendships with the opposite gender, hangouts, and partying around with the opposite gender is the norm.  Chasing girls is a hobby amongst the boys in these educational institutions.  It’s not just a hobby, but it is something which defines ones status, image, popularity and competency.  The more girls around a guy, the more heroic he is considered.  The case with girls is not much different.  The more guys chasing a girl, the more stylish, modern and pretty she is perceived as.  These perceptions are fully endorsed by the entertainment media and fashion industry.  Thus peer pressure and common perception is making more and more people flirt, attract the opposite gender, have long night calls with that special him/her, go on dates, and even use drugs. In my opinion, there are a very few people who are genuinely lovestruck; the rest seem to have just jumped on the bandwagon.  Even if the tendency is genuine, it may lead to disastrous consequences, if not curbed.
Yasha Fatima
December 22, 2025

#Lovestruck – Did you know what YC is talking about these days?

#Lovestruck… That’s the newest trending hashtag for the Youth Clubbers! Before you say: “But we are encouraged to love our parents, siblings, thy neighbour etc..” Or “But I love my car, my job etc…” Allow us to clarify that the kind of love YouthClub is talking/tweeting/blogging/posting about is: the love that a man feels for a non-mehram woman and/or vice versa. Loving your family, car etc. is in most cases instinctive and quite harmless, and may even be encouraged.  #Lovestruck is actually opening the debate on those raging hormones and the natural procreative instincts, which a lot of youth are expressing through the notion of having a girlfriend or a boyfriend.  Is this really the best way to deal with our desires? Does it really bring happiness inside?  Have we understood this feeling correctly?  Questions like these need to be discussed, especially in light of the onslaught of the media, which is re-defining for us what this feeling is.  A lot of people convincingly argue that the ‘love’ that men and women on campuses, in offices, in the market place or during parties have for each other is not actually love, but just ‘lust’. Whatever you call it, Islam in its beautiful perfection has guided humankind as to the best way to control and channel all natural human instincts. When the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) saw a young man merely looking at a young woman, he turned his head so as to make him
Yasha Fatima