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The Dua of Not Asking for the Wrong Thing: Because Not Every Desire Leads to Good

رَبِّ أَعُوذُ بِكَ أَنْ أَسْأَلَكَ مَا لَيْسَ لِي بِهِ عِلْمٌ ۚ وَإِلَّا تَغْفِرْ لِي وَتَرْحَمْنِي أَكُنْ مِنَ الْخَاسِرِينَ

“My Lord, I seek refuge in You from asking for that which I have no knowledge. And unless You forgive me and have mercy upon me, I will be among the losers.” [Quran 11:47]

It was a moment of heartbreak.

The waves had swallowed everything. The towering flood carried away homes, land—people. And among them was his son.

Prophet Nuh (AS) had spent centuries calling his people. Patiently. Tirelessly. But when the punishment came, when he saw his own son among the drowning, his heart trembled. He called out, pleading for him.

“My Lord, my son is of my family, and Your promise is true…” [Quran 11:45]

But Allah (SWT)’s response was clear: “O Nuh, he is not of your family. Indeed, he was of unrighteous conduct.” [Quran 11:46]

And in that moment, Prophet Nuh (AS) realised—not everything we love is good for us. Not everything we desire is part of Allah (SWT)’s plan.

So he immediately turned back to his Lord, making this dua of humility:

“My Lord, I seek refuge in You from asking for that which I have no knowledge. And unless You forgive me and have mercy upon me, I will be among the losers.”

This is the dua of surrender. Of realising that we don’t always know what’s best. How often do we beg for things—certain they will bring us happiness—only to realise later they were never meant for us?

This dua teaches us to trust. To ask with hope, but submit with humility. To accept that Allah (SWT)’s wisdom is far greater than our desires.

So if you’ve ever prayed for something and watched it slip away—say this dua. If you’ve ever questioned why Allah (SWT) didn’t give you what you so desperately wanted—say this dua.

Because true success isn’t getting what you want. It’s being granted only what leads you to Him.

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Muhammad Ali

Muhammad Ali completed his Bachelor’s in Mechanical Engineering and a Master’s in Applied Psychology. He is a passionate Trainer and Motivational Speaker. Over the last decade, he has worked with prominent organisations such as PEL, Akhuwat, and the Police Academy, among others.

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Tuaha Ibn Jalil

Tuaha Ibn Jalil holds a degree in HRM from SZABIST and is currently serving as the Country Head at Youth Club. He has spoken at esteemed events and institutions, including TedX, CSS Academy, LUMS, GIKI, and NUST.  ‘Wednesday Night Exclusive’ and the 11th Hour Podcast are among his popular podcasts.

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Raja Zia Ul Haq

Raja Zia ul Haq, the CEO of Youth Club has a Master’s degree in Information Technology from the University of Canberra, Australia. He holds over a decade of professional experience in the Media and Telecom industry. Over the years, he has conducted numerous lectures, workshops and podcasts including Maulvi With An Attitude.

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